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Free Yourself From the Attitudes & Words of Toxic People
A problem everyone encounters in their life is being affected by the negative words and attitudes of others.
And there’s a multitude of advice out there on how to deal with toxic people.
“Blocking” the other person’s energy from affecting you is a favorite technique pushed by many self-help gurus and wellness experts. The truth is this: you may perceive that you have blocked another person’s negative energy, but that is a delusion.
Instead, you have only blocked the portions of your brain recording the offending event, and you just become blind to the offending energy (which, by the way, is still vibrating within you). Inevitably, the person who uses techniques to block energy will narrow their mind as they block more and more of the reality around them. You end up blocking your own neuron cells.
To be oblivious to everything around you does not mean reality is not taking place.
The truth is you really can’t block an event from history, it vibrates forever. When you oppose it, you’re amassing a great percentage of your energy toward disrupting a historical event. You ultimately record, along with that event, your opposition to the behavior and your perception of the offending individual. This is especially difficult when it is a family member, as…